I have often found it difficult to find the kind of players I want in my games (or people whose games I would want to join). I freely admit to being picky.
I am not looking for games (or expectations of games) that start the session with "Roll for initiative". I am looking for games and gamers where getting into character is
at least as important as combat stats, preferably more so. I am looking for people who want to add some depth to the gaming world and environment, rather than simply waiting for the next roving chunk of XP. And I don't want to game in or with people who only are willing to play under a single system -- diversity is much more fun!
Yep, I am a Gaming Snob and proud.
So even though I live in a populace region where gaming is acceptably mainstream geeky, it is still at times difficult to put a group together. This is why I value the gamers I currently have, although one is leaving soon so I will need to find a fourth player again.