I think it's notable here that how a player reacts to such a situation is often quite different when he puts himself into it knowingly and willingly, rather than at the hands of the party, the Dm, or the dice.
True, and that's a good distinction. I've tried to get him more active, since he normally is, but he just hasn't budged on it, really.
JC - what does this player do when the other PC's are out doing other stuff? Does he just sit there and watch the session?
He'll give his input on their situation. And, to be fair, most of the session takes place in or near the castle, so he gets to talk to them in character a lot of the time (well, "talk"... he's mute). But, when they leave to go on diplomatic missions, gather resources, confront threats, and the like, he stays back, hammering away in his forge.
I've tried to see if he wants to build something into his character to make him more proactive, or if he wants to swap characters, or if he wants to be more proactive in other ways. He wants to establish a court to socialize in, but that's about it. He's pretty insistent. And, I'm not afraid of him losing interest, either. We'll talk about the campaign between sessions (this happened today), he compliments me on my game versus past GMs (this happened today), and I've known him for over ten years, so we're pretty open to each other (we got into a discussion today where he voiced his frustration, so there's no problems there).
I think what happened is that he made a crafting character, built him to be mostly noncombat (though he got a wicked crit with his warhammer on a bandit the one time he left), and is stubbornly sticking to it, playing him as he thinks his character would act. I just don't want him to get tired of the game because he's so passive in-character.
Like I said, out of character he likes to give advice, give input, and the like, but he rarely does stuff with this character. And, since this hasn't been a problem with past characters, I'm sort of surprised to see it.
As always, play what you like
