Jdvn1 said:
Though, if industry persons are too sensitive or are not hearing what they want to hear, that'll drive them away too. I get the impression that some (more than likely not all) WotC people avoid EN World because some people dislike 3.5 or certain aspects of it--regardless of civility.
Actually, this raises a really interesting, and perhaps important, point...
Generally speaking, when we talk amongst ourselves here, we are terribly informal. We have rules of civility, but they are pretty loose. With a little experience, we get a certain expectation of what is okay, and what isn't.
When a WotC employee (or any other industry professional) comes here to speak in that professional capacity, for them that is a
professional conversation, not a casual one. It isn't necessarily that they are "too sensitive", so much as they are not in the role of John Q Poster. They're in the role of a professional, representing their company. Darned straight they're going to have different expectations and tolerances. They are going to expect significantly higher standards of comportment and civility. And almost all of the vitriol lately was clearly in violation of those standards.
We, collectively, need to remember that for their benefit, such conversations
need to be handled with a slightly more formal tone and approach. If we can do that, maybe they'd be more willing to come here and talk.
I'll betcha that the vast majority of them are quite willing to take negative feedback, so long as it is approached in a mature manner.