You either haven't been paying attention, or you are deliberately mischaracterizing the argument against save-or-dies. It's not "the DM is a big fat jerk that wants to kill your beloved character." It's that the question of whether your character lives or dies should not be resolved by a single roll of the d20. It's not fun to be killed in the first round of combat (or the surprise round) before you even have a chance to act.Reynard said:Or that it was the default method. And that's the problem. the argument against save or die effects, so far, has rested solely on one issue: the DM is a big fat jerk that wants to kill your beloved character.
And also, save-or-dies are a problem when used by the players, too, since they can turn a carefully planned battle that the players might have been looking forward to for a long time into a colossal anticlimax.