Yank the paladin-hood, it's like a bandaid - one swift motion. Maybe give her a shot of whisky to numb the pain.
Blackguard has to be evil though, right? She just might be neutral. Perhaps their needs to be a "Grizzled Veteran" prestige class for fallen paladins. A fighter who gains an extra feat or two to make up for the lost paladin abilities. That would probably fit better with a party of pixies anyway.
At 10th level they get a "Redemption" feat whereby if they are slain, they have the opportunity to die in a heroic and lawful fashion, being granted their paladinhood and going to the great paladin castle in the sky. (Of course, this being 3E, they'll be raised and back in the dungeon in about 5 minutes).
Blackguard has to be evil though, right? She just might be neutral. Perhaps their needs to be a "Grizzled Veteran" prestige class for fallen paladins. A fighter who gains an extra feat or two to make up for the lost paladin abilities. That would probably fit better with a party of pixies anyway.
At 10th level they get a "Redemption" feat whereby if they are slain, they have the opportunity to die in a heroic and lawful fashion, being granted their paladinhood and going to the great paladin castle in the sky. (Of course, this being 3E, they'll be raised and back in the dungeon in about 5 minutes).