Bayushi_seikuro
Hero
I agree with this. Consider the stereotype of American Thanksgiving - eating enough turkey and assorted goods that you essentially just get food-coma for hours. It's expected. And as you said - drugs and poison are rarely instant in the real world. With the culture having the expectation of hospitality, even the fact these people are somewhere they shouldn't make a difference.Again, depends on how you "witness" the other character making a saving throw. The saving throw itself is not something that characters will realize is going on without a concrete effect. A character being visibly weak or acting drugged first however....might possibly justify the flawed character roleplaying out struggling with their willpower against consuming the fruit. And generally speaking, drugs and poisons in the real world are rarely rapid/instantaneous when ingested.
Without a concrete, discernible effect - they should just eat it.
That's why the infamous Red Wedding was so brutal and well-executed. It's how Cu Chulainn was betrayed - his twin vows of not eating dog meat, and his vow not to refuse hospitality - he couldn't refuse to eat the dog meat that was provided, which cost his invulnerability.