Kahuna Burger said:Nope, form can go jump in a lake.Ellie is not feeling socially snubbed, she is feeling that a practical setup is going to sailor boy's head and he is having delusions of authority where he does not in fact possess it.
Doesn't he, though? The crew and passengers think he's the captain, right? So if you gave an order, they'd always look to him to see if they should follow it, right? That's authority.
If you go around trying to quiety tell members of the crew that the captain is not, in fact, in control, don't be surprised if they accuse you of trying to mutiny against the rightful captain of the ship

You may claim that he doesn't have authority to make decisions for the rest of the party, but that's a separate issue. The ship and the crew is a resource - you've given him command of that resource which he is supposed to use for the good of the party. Much like the party might agree that he's the one to have a powerful magic sword.