I don't think 4e's marketing was a fiasco, and no amount of squeeky wheel diatribes from faceless online usernames is going to convince me otherwise.
I also had no problem with the marketing, and feel that those that do are from another planet than I.
And as far as the rules, I feel that 4e didn't go
far enough.
What I have a problem with is not even being able to talk about the game without getting the conversation tainted by WotC/4e hate.
I would say that it's the Internet that does it, or the passions of gamers, but I see it far too much in other areas to say that. But I believe that, just because you have an opinion (and a right to have it), that does not mean you should grab a bullhorn and give that opinion at every opportunity you can.*
I made a new years resolution to not pour negative into the water. If someone I'm around (internet or RL) is discussing something they LIKE (such as say, a Movie) that I Dislike, I bite my tongue. Because I don't want to ruin the mood by saying "I dislike something You obviously like". Especially if they're not talking directly TO ME. If they are talking directly TO ME, I downplay my dislike to neutrality, for the sake of politeness.
For this same reason, when I have a broken leg, but someone with a broken arm complains, I do not say "Yeah well try a broken leg! It's more inconvenient!"
*For instance, this is the only time I bring up my feelings on this, instead of posting it every time the edition war or threadcrap pops up.