arscott said:10 and 11. Duh.![]()
There's nothing wrong with giving up nerdery for a while to build a social life. What's wrong is trusting an MTV show to help. The best they can manage to do is change a quiet, geeky misanthrope into a loud, obnoxious misanthrope with a bad taste in music.
Henry said:There aren't that many women actively looking for somebody who goes half-naked and body-painted...
Lady Firehawk said:Well... I *AM* a girl, so there.The only girl in my gaming group, but ehhhh... also the only Christian, which sorta puts me out of any of their sights in terms of dateability. (This is where I get screwed over because there aren't too many Christian gamer guys around here... blehhhh. No wonder I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend.
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I've always been kind of a nerd/geek, so nerd/geeks are what I feel comfortable with. In high school all the loud, giggly preppie chicks just annoyed the heck out of me, and even in middle school I got progressively more bummed out as all my friends grew out of playing pretend (and became preppies, lol) and I didn't. Even the ones who were younger than me, which most were.
So it's really no wonder I ended up getting into RPGs and D&D and such.And I suspect it's at least part of the reason I've been in absolutely no hurry to get a boyfriend or get into the sorts of trouble that other teens were. Much safer to be inside at all hours of the night playing D&D than going out and getting in trouble with the police.
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You've never been to Newcastle, have you?Henry said:There aren't that many women actively looking for somebody who goes half-naked and body-painted to cheer a sporting event, either.![]()
maddman75 said:Is this not fairly common? I stopped gaming for 3-4 years in my late teens to, well, act like an animal and chase girls around. Gaming is something I do for fun, not a path I live my life by. If you can't imagine not gaming in order to go out and socialzie with others, maybe you need to take a break. Whether a girls plays roleplaying games or not is almost an irrelevency. Its way, way down on the list of things I look for. Way higher is "respects my interests and hobbies", so even if she's not a gamer she won't have a problem with me doing so - but that's a larger issue not related to gaming directly.
There's more to life than hit points and funny dice.
Why do people think you can't play D&D *and* chase girls? Why would someone need to stop gaming to do something else?I stopped gaming for 3-4 years in my late teens to, well, act like an animal and chase girls around.