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Sunseeker
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I don't think so. I've never been in a situation with a man playing a woman where the roleplaying didn't creep me out.
Given that, why not play your own gender, even if only to avoid the "he -- wait, she -- wait, are you female?" issue?
Could you give us an example of how you feel, with the exceptions of the extremes, what did those characters do, how did they act, that particularly creeped you out? It couldn't be the rolling the dice, or the character sheet, or maybe their funny hat.
And failing to remember your player's character's gender sounds to me more like an issue of just simply failing to remember.
No, women don't exist. You perception of how a woman should be exists. Societal perceptions of how women should be exist. The females of the species homo-sapien exist. But "women" as a conglomerative group of people who act in a specific manner, do not.Neither offends me. However, I'll take a stab at the basic reason some might be offended: kobolds don't actually exist, and women do.
So under your logic, I could play a female elf, dragonborn, or yes, even kobold, because they too do not exist. A female kobold is no more real than a female elf. And neither are any more real than your human male sorcerer.The primary differences between humans and kobolds will tend to be simplistic and stereotyped, as even the multi-page document your DM gives you isn't a treatment in real depth on a whole society and culture. And we take that as okay, as we don't have any real non-human sentients walking around to compare to. We all know our attempts to do it will be rough, and no real person can take the rendition as mocking or insensitive.
The probability that you will piss someone off doing something is downright overwhelming. You could sit around on your bum all day and THAT would piss someone off. People's problems in this day and age lie in the fact that everyone is being coddled. You don't like that I play a woman badly? Instead of tearing me a new one, help me play a woman better. If a woman complains and says "men will never understand" then that is simply sexism and I'll happily call them for it.Over-simplify the subtleties between the male and female points of view, however, and you are apt to cheese someone off, because there are real people involved, and real history in which some folks have gotten and still get the short end of the stick.
Not being a huge Star Wars nut I can't really say for sure on that example, but in general I agree. But that is a failing of the creators, not the viewers. If you're so tapped-out for material that all you can think of for wookies(or in the cause I champion, dwarves), is just taken from historical stereotypes of humans, then you really need to step back and refresh your mind.Non gaming example: Nobody cares about the weak portrayal of Wookie culture in Star Wars. As soon as they present Star Wars races that resemble some real world stereotypes too much, and you get a load of argument.