Lora's suitor was 5 times your lvl and you came out alright there just a little winded.
I was taken out of action in one hit.

Luckily the suitor wasn't of a mind to draw a weapon or Aidan would very possibly be dead. lol
Holyman said:
Must always remember the point isn't to win a fight it is to survive and learn from it.
I think this here is my issue. I'm rather not accustomed to games were my objective is just to get out alive, the objective is usually to force the opposition to struggle hard to do that very thing.

That difference of expectation is likely part of my frustration with Aidan's effectiveness.
Holyman said:
If an encounter helps you grow RP wise than that is the best encounter you could have ever had, not the one that gives you such and such XP or such and such treasure.
Never was about the treasure, I'm very much a slayer according to the DMG. I enjoy roleplaying, but I really enjoy my characters succeeding(particularly in scenarios where he's forced into a fight). I do agree the good roleplaying is more important than the loot. Loot can always be figured out later. Good RP isn't something that can be 'established later' as easily.
Holyman said:
Have faith in your DM we are still building up Aidan till the day he becomes Mr. Bada$$
Haha, alrighty. I'm at a loss anyhow so I'll roll with your ideas until something strikes me(or I might just keep going with yours anyhow!

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Holyman said:
I gotta get some sleep 7 hrs till I gots to be at work and I have a full day thinking up what Dellex is going to say to Jareth. (Or not say, you think you have it bad LOL your not picking a fight with a 16th lvl LE wizard so count your blessings.)
HM
Thing is, Aidan's only 'picked' one fight[and even then he didn't really want a fight...], and that was with Lora's suitor. Everything else picked a fight with Aidan and proceeded to either chase him across the countryside, put him to sleep, or poison him.
Every other fight he just kinda stumbled into. Then again, that's very much how Rand&Co. were in the first few books.
Also: Aidan was very close to attempting to flee from Dellex back at the tent, which likely would have led to a fight, but he stayed because he figured Lora would think him an idiot if he blew their 'ignorance' to Dellex's manipulations.
As for sleep, yeah, I gotta get up at about the same time, but that's for a D&D game via AIM, then I'm hanging out with some friends and THEN going to work.
