Now i am gonna preface this so i dont seem like a jerk right off. I have been gaming and GMing for years, but i am not super old (25 lol) and half my group is females and allways has been.
In my experiance female gamers and newby girls have by far felt the most comfortable in games when they are treated just like everyone else. No guys going out of thier way to be rude, and no PC (political correctness in this case) coddling either.
I have tried both ways, being nuetral and being coddling, (not in my nature to be a jerk for no reason) and inevitably when i tried to go out of my way to treat a girl gamer in the way that my admittedly very male, and very akward in this department brain says a girl should be treated she gets bored or tells me not to treat her special and just DM like i normally would, then i do and everyone has fun.
But recently i have been looking at the WOTC forums for 4e stuff and stumbled onto this section. Now maybe its just the half dozen threads i have read on there but it makes me wonder, are most players this whiny and PC? Are most newbies really looking this hard for anything to be offended over? And to any female gamers, do you really want to be treated this differently then guy gamers are treated?
this just seems like a huge step backward from making groups work together. Anytime you start separating people, by race, or gender or religion you start breaking them apart into groups and making them adversarial. So if this step is designed to make people work start being nice, its just plain dumb. And if its just market research by WoTC its not just dumb and divisive its offensive to me as a male because it seems from the tone of the "parlor" that guys dont know how to act around women.
I guess i am looking for others opinions on this and after reading a page or two of the topics if this actualy adds anything to gaming or just leads to more divisive infighting at a time when the new edition allready has the community eating each other alive?
In my experiance female gamers and newby girls have by far felt the most comfortable in games when they are treated just like everyone else. No guys going out of thier way to be rude, and no PC (political correctness in this case) coddling either.
I have tried both ways, being nuetral and being coddling, (not in my nature to be a jerk for no reason) and inevitably when i tried to go out of my way to treat a girl gamer in the way that my admittedly very male, and very akward in this department brain says a girl should be treated she gets bored or tells me not to treat her special and just DM like i normally would, then i do and everyone has fun.
But recently i have been looking at the WOTC forums for 4e stuff and stumbled onto this section. Now maybe its just the half dozen threads i have read on there but it makes me wonder, are most players this whiny and PC? Are most newbies really looking this hard for anything to be offended over? And to any female gamers, do you really want to be treated this differently then guy gamers are treated?
this just seems like a huge step backward from making groups work together. Anytime you start separating people, by race, or gender or religion you start breaking them apart into groups and making them adversarial. So if this step is designed to make people work start being nice, its just plain dumb. And if its just market research by WoTC its not just dumb and divisive its offensive to me as a male because it seems from the tone of the "parlor" that guys dont know how to act around women.
I guess i am looking for others opinions on this and after reading a page or two of the topics if this actualy adds anything to gaming or just leads to more divisive infighting at a time when the new edition allready has the community eating each other alive?
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