[OT] Naming a child Arwen

Avoid baby name books

Counter-recommentation: avoid NEW baby name books. I highly recommend you go look at OLD baby name books--such as those published fifty years ago or more. Libraries often have them. Sure, there are some names you'd never use in a million years, but there are a lot of beautiful old names that few people use anymore.

The commonality thing is also something to think about. I can't tell you how many other moms I know who've wailed to me "But I thought Megan/Emma/Jacob was a unique name!"

Just please, for the love of all things holy, don't get creative with the spelling. DO NOT decide to name her Arwyn or Arwenn.
 
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Re: Molly

Kajama Lion growled:

Whiskey in the Jar?


Yep, not too difficult really, but we think it's a nice name - even if I do sometimes lengthen it to Mollusc or Molygon :D


Big gazzelle flavoured cookies being sent your way.
 

Aitch Eye said:

My wife agreed to the names immediately (Ben had been on her list anyway), though I didn't tell her why I suggested them until some months after the birth.

On the other hand, naming one of your children "Human Torch" probably isn't the best way to make them feel loved. :)

Hmm, if only my younger brother had been named Bizarro Jason...

Arwen is a great name IMO. I've always liked Rhiannon too, though, with my username here, that may not be surprising.
A kid who went to the same school I did was named Gilbert Gilbert Gilbert III. No joke. A friend of mine is/was? seriously consiering Kermit as a middle name for any future son of his (first name was prospectively Harley I believe).

My sister named her daughter Madison and then suddenly everyone was naming their daughters that (my sister may be the only one of them who didn't see Splash). She named her son Tristan and now I'm seeing that constantly too. Even worse, a lot of girls are being given the name simply because it sounds like Kristin, not because they have a clue about the origins... So they get a lot of, "Isn't that a girl's name?", comments about him. :rolleyes:

Incidently:
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tmaaas said:
My three daughters all have "A" names:

Arinmir
Amber
Amethyst

Arinmir is based on Tolkien. (It was the name of a card [female elf] in the MECCG game put out by ICE.) Because it's not an "official" Tolkien name with a Tolkien etymology, we took it as a form of "Arien-mir"; in Tolkien's Sylvan or Quenya Elvish (I think Sylvan, but don't remember) this means "Maiden of Sunlight Jewel".

We had very seriously considered naming our second daughter Arwen, but went with the alliteration / jewel theme instead.

-- tmaaas

So the next one's...agate?
 


FWIW I think that Arwen is a lovely name. A few years from now, only Tolkien fans will know where it came from.

The friend who intoduced me to D&D has the initials PLC (which in the UK usually stands for Public Limited Company - i.e. a company that's listed on a stock exchange). His wife has the initials KFC. Their eldest son has the initials TLC and their other sons, who are twins, have the initials AC and DC. No kidding!

My own surname is Simkin which is also the name of a character in the Darksword tetralogy (see my sig). It has only once been a source of amusement when I met a woman who was a fantasy fan and knew I was too. When I told her my last name was Simkin, she didn't believe me. :p
 


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Dave Blewer said:
Yep, not too difficult really, but we think it's a nice name - even if I do sometimes lengthen it to Mollusc or Molygon :D

Big gazzelle flavoured cookies being sent your way.

Molygon? That's twisted. :) Cookies, eh? *yoink* Breakfast is always good.

Best,
tKL
 

Here is baby naming advice on found on another website. I do not endorse anything listed below - do not shoot the messenger if your name is a location, a stripper name, spelled funny, and difficult to pronounce.

· Always give a child a middle name that they can resort to when they decide they don't like their first name.
· Names should be easy to spell, even for people who have never seen them. You should be able to instinctively spell it just by hearing it (unlike, say, "Oissubke"). No child ever thanked his or her parents for using a "creative" spelling.
· Similarly, names should be easy to pronounce. When the person interviewing you for a job gets corrected for saying the first thing out of their mouth (your name), it can hurt the interview.
· Names should always have a reasonably good nickname form. If you name a kid "Mordecai", know that you're going to start calling him "Moe" after about the third time you say it.
· Don't use last names (e.g., MacKenzie, Madison, etc.) as first names, especially for girls. It’s confusing.
· Run the "secretary of state test" on baby names: i.e., imagine how it would sound to have a news anchor read the now-adult child's name out in a serious context like "Today at the United Nations, Secretary of State [Brandy Alexandra Jones] condemned Iraq's stance...."
· Run the “Map Location” test. If your baby name is a commonly known location, scrap it. Dakota and Sierra are much better place names than people names.
· Run the “Stripper Test”. If your baby name sounds like a stripper's stage name, ditch it. Hunter, Cheyenne, Britney, you know the drill. People will be taken less seriously if their names sound like a stage name.
· Locate the top ten names for the prior year from the Census web site – and don’t use those. Naming is part of self-identity, and having 10 other kids with your name damages your self-identity.
 


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