Philip
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freebfrost said:I am playing a young female druid, who has led a reclusive life....
I'll say!
I don't know, but your druid has had a particulary brutal childhood if the first thing she thinks of when she disagrees with something is threaten with deadly force, and go throug with it while the other side is still arguing.
And also pretty naive in thinking that a few cure spells would heal the mental damage dealt by the attack.
"Yeah, I know I gunned you down, but you just kept arguing with me, what *was* I supposed to do. I was right and you were not. Besides, I paid for your hospital bill, so we can just be friends again, right?"

In wouldn't even come to the rewarding of XP part, I would have stopped the situation dead cold for it escalated and would ask the player: "Do you really desire a game with intra-party conflicts of this kind?"
If the player answered yes then I would not allow him to participate in my campaign anymore. Its already hard enough to keep a group together without somebody in the party looking for trouble with other party members.
The very last thing I would do is reward behaviour like that.
So, no XP from me, I guess.