reveal
Adventurer
Arbiter of Wyrms said:I haven't finished reading the thread yet, and, reveal, I'm only picking on you because over the last few weeks, it seems to me that you're the one to pick on when somebody gets an attitude, not because what you've said is subtantially different than the consensus.
No problem.
I think this situation, however, is different than what you described. You've got a group of people, including Spud, who have continued to associate with each other and are friends. Wormwood only hangs out with Spud and isn't friends with the other guys. Spud is his best friend. Suddenly, the guys who Spud is supposedly friends with ask Wormwood to join the group and not tell Spud.
At this point, I wouldn't be concerned about my own feelings, just say "No thanks" and leave it at that. I would be more concerned about Spud. These guys are supposed to be his friends yet they pull something like this on him? That's not being a friend, that's being a jerk.
And when Spud learns this happened (if Wormwood doesn't tell him he WILL find out some other way) who will Spud be more angry at? His "friends?" Nope. He'll be mad at Wormwood because they are supposed to be best friends and trust each other. As Crothian said, not telling him would be the same as lying to him. And that's not what true friends do to each other.