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Whizbang Dustyboots said:Yeah, those would be the prudes I was speaking about, who have attempted to further codify an arbitrary usage.![]()
Other than it sounding strange to one accustomed to using the two different words, they work pretty much interchangeably, even amongst academics.
First of all, it's not a prude usage. You would use one word in one context, the other in another. Many academics in fact study sex and sexuality.
Second, it's not arbitrary. It is sometimes very important to talk about being masculine (in the eyes of a certain culture) versus having a penis. While they might in some usage be interchangeable, the reason the distinction is made is because in some situations, the distinction is vitally important. As to why "gender" was chosen over "sex" for a certain sense, it is mostly because gender already had an established usage in grammar.
Third, the words can be very important "in the real world" if you deal with someone who does not, for whatever reason, fit the gender norms.
I'm working on a Masters degree now, and the usage has been thoroughly consistent throughout my school career. I take umbrage at the suggestion the distinction is anything other than pragmatic.