No, you just didn't understand it.
You should really try to comprehend something before trying to "correct" it.
Here, I'll quote myself again to remind you of what I actually said:
So let's break this down:
I first refer to the notion that it's only sexist if it doesn't apply to gentlemen as well. My reply is that it does not apply and that a "gentleman" swearing is perfectly acceptable behaviour because of the different standards applied to men versus women.
I then–and this is really the key point here because there are two separate concepts being addressed and you need to be able to differentiate between them in order to understand the point–say that even if the standard was applied to men as well, it would still be elitist.
Elitism is not sexism, even though sexism is a form of elitism.
Putting someone down for swearing is elitism, whether done to a man or a woman.
Do you get it now or do I have to explain it in simpler fashion?