bwgwl said:
if the rules don't fit my group's playing style, i get a new system; i don't even bother with house rules.
your second quote is functionally identical to fusangite's #2 poll choice: changing the rules to make the game more fun == house rules.
My point is that he made two of the choices that don't agree with how he runs the game have negative connotations, while keeping the ones that agree with his view fairly neutral.
Asking if you change things when players are "unhappy" is kind of like asking "Do you cater to whiners?"