Bedrockgames
I post in the voice of Christopher Walken
Illustrating the second: It’s hard to apply the golden rule to a plea that “X is sacred to me, please don’t use X like you’re intending” if you don’t have a genuine understanding of what sacred means; that it is more than just “really important”. There’s no basis for a mutual understanding of what that violation would feel like.
You are assuming a lot here. A lot of us grew up with very real sense of the sacred and what it means. That doesn't mean we have to think it is reasonable for people to be able to extend that sense of the sacred outside their own cultural boundaries. A lot of people were bothered by Piss Christ. I'd much rather exist in a world where that sort of artwork is viable, than one where it it isn't (or where the artist gets chased out). For a lot of Christians that imagery was very painful to have to see. But I also think the artist was making a profound statement. I think what you are advocating treats people from these cultures like children (i.e. they can't handle this the way I might be able to handle piss christ). Yes they can. You are just making people weaker when you tell them they can't handle this stuff, or when you act like someone playing a melodic scale is going to vanquish their culture. Their stronger than that and so is their culture. What threatens cultures isn't appropriation. It is much more concrete things (like war, conquest, etc). Again, people are not museum pieces.