Xamnam
Loves Your Favorite Game
The bold isn't my argument. The italics is helpful context in interpreting your posts, and the value of stating personal definitions. (I do know you've stated this before in this thread) This is a conversation between many different people, so people are inherently going to be bringing in their personal definitions.I still don't see the value.
Me: Metagaming is bringing in out of character information and having the PC use it anyway. That is cheating in my game.
Them: Any influence at all by out of character information is metagaming, so there's no point in you trying to avoid metagaming since you can't avoid it by our definition.
Well, okay. Then they can be metagaming in their own game using that definition, but as they aren't metagaming by my definition, the conversation, since I'm talking about apples and they are talking about oranges. Nothing they say that hinges on their definition can matter to the conversation that I'm having, since their definition does not exist in it.
The reason I state this is because if I can see things that are considered metagaming as positive, I'm going to want to argue with someone that simply states all metagaming is bad. Definitions help make these positions more understandable, and help conversation function as explanation rather than a fight for who is right. A fight specifically over definitions is very likely to go nowhere productive. I'm not saying your definition is wrong. Please do the other side the same kindness.