Almost a non sequitor, but consider: you're talking about using the wrong tool for the job at hand. If you don't succeed at cutting those boards with a hammer, do you blame the hammer, or one's foolishness in picking the wrong tool for the job? If one knows one likes more rules-light games, and picks up a game that has three substantial books as its core, blaming the game because one's gaming experience isn't much fun seems wrong-headed to me. The point being: pick a game to play that suits what you like. In this case, one can easily pick up one of the core books, riffle through it, and say: "damn, that's a lot of rules." If this reaction is negative, then one can put the book down and look for a game that is less imposing.