The quarterback in an American football game? You mean the player who’s paid the most, gets most of the accolades, the best retirement package, the most press, etc? The literal star of the team. Yes, that is a perfect comparison for the wizard. The QB regularly and constantly outshines literally everyone else on the team. Good thing D&D isn’t a sport. It’s a game. Asking players to be okay with playing clearly and obviously second-string characters is terrible design.
Yes. Mostly in the form of not being able to accept that other people can actually have a problem they don’t personally encounter.
Yes, that’s cool and all, but it does nothing to actually solve the problem.
It’s not possible to have a discussion about solving a problem with people who deny the problem even exists.