No, it's not. It is only correct if your campaign makes it correct.
Our warlock has, under no possible way, outshined any of the martials. In our last campaign, our rogue outshined everyone with a few exceptions, such as our bard during specific scenarios.
This is such a false statement. I can't think of a 5e campaign I have played in (and I have played in many with many different people) where the wizard or warlock were OP compared to the martials.
Ah, the old "it doesn't happen at my table, therefore it cannot happen at any meaningful proportion of tables" argument. Always good to see that one still alive and kicking after all these years. Really raises the emotional temperature of the thread.
I think what you’re missing is that the people you’re arguing with don’t believe that each class needs special features for each pillar. Essentially, from our POV, the response is mostly variations of, “okay, so what?”
Then the game should not lie to you by telling you these things are pillars when they emphatically are not.
It is easy to homebrew and 3pp is a huge market. It would be nonsense to claim that 5e isn’t welcoming to 3pp overall just because you local experience is super “RAW and official only”.
It is not my local experience.
It is over 90% of the games I've applied to play. Because I essentially never play in person, almost always online.
No, it isn’t. It is vastly worse than just using skills. It’s a last resort.
Then you are failing to use it creatively. It
is niche. It does require other factors in play. But it is not exclusively a last resort.
Higher level spells, and spells that will be taken as attacks when you’re done. Okay. Gift of gab is the only one that I can agree with you on, here.
I sincerely hope you only mean that as "higher than 1st," which...yes, I never denied that, and don't see how that is in any way an issue. And which of these will be taken as attacks?
Suggestion doesn't work that way.
Enhance ability isn't even an attack, it's a buff you put on an ally.
Detect thoughts only does that if you specifically try to probe deeper. Surface thoughts ("what is most on its mind in that moment") can be read without any hostility; it only upsets people if you force them to make the Wis save. The text even explicitly says you can push a creature's surface thoughts in an intended direction (i.e. get it to think about things you want it to think about) through your words and actions.
Uh, how exactly? Because your whole point was that Fighters could be good at
They don’t need to keep up with the wizard in all pillars of play.
That's not what I said. At all. It is very frustrating to me to have my words twisted in this way.
Well no, it’s a type of design you dont prefer. It also isn’t true. To be true, the fighter would need to have penalties in the social pillar.
....no, absolutely not. Or, if you prefer, bringing
nothing at all to the table for
essential aspects of play IS a penalty.
A fairy chess piece that cannot move
at all is broken.
What do you
mean, "what"? It's literally in the OP. Do I need to quote the text itself? It's right there!
It's also not a wizard spell, but that's a different issue.
As of Tasha's Cauldron of Everything, it is in fact a Wizard spell.