Nightcloak said:Well said. Leave a few cold drinks in the fridge, I’m probably next!
But if other interests are just pulling their attention away, then you will have some tough choices to make. I’d talk to everyone individually at that point and be honest; you might save the third guy if he realizes how much you would like him to stay and why. If he thinks you are just randomly “booting” people from the game, he will see you as the triggerman and leave with his friends. If he sees that his friends are leaving because they no longer have an interest in the game, but he still does want to play thanks to your interest in him, then he will see it as their decision and would be more likely to stay.
I really need to learn to say things more concise!![]()
Hope all of this helps and I hope I triggered a few ideas. Best of luck, and definitely let me now if I can help more. Let us know what happens.

Morbog of Ghetto D said:In response to your problems.....I face many of the same....
Its really really difficult when your level of investment isnt off set by the players..
I wrote several weeks ago about my similar problems...
The lack of "serious gaming" may be cyclical. I took a break in one of my other campaigns for now 3 months because the Players were questioning every combat encounter and monster. My current d20 campaign got a little off track, but I applied several points that the my fellow DM suggested...
I think ultimately open the next session explaining what the game means to you, be very positive and supportive. NOT CRITCAL. Suprisingly some of theses players will/may come forward admitting "yeah we have been jerks". Make sure that the game still reflects the concept that the players have. UNFORTUATELY I have found that I need to accept some of this poor behavior because my players are not as HARDCORE as me and 2 of the other players. Sad, but your expectations may be too high?..
Hand out this easy survey...
themind said:For my campaign, I've been working on the idea that Nightcloak came up with.
I'm currently trying to work on the special warforged. I am looking for some help though.
For the base creature, which I have been thinking about calling a Warforged Goliath, before adding any templates to it, I want to aim for a CR of 3-5. I was thinking of it having at about 5 HD, DR 5/Adamantine, having Adamanine plating(+8 AC), the Powerful Build trait, abilities of Str 20, Dex 13, Con 18, Int 10, Wis 8, Cha 6. It would be a medium creature.
I was thinking of having it wield a weapon similar to the Goliath Great Hammer in the Races of Stone, except a large one.
What would you estimate the CR of the creature with the main stuff I just mentioned.

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