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Which, then, should I be paying attention to?
I certainly wouldn't presume to summarize the whole thread. But what I see as cardinal to this discussion is that the OP presumes, as others have before, to explain resistance to 4e in terms of psychology rather than the content of 4e itself. I believe that is simply wrong. There are probably those who exhibit irrational resistance, but I do not think they are the heart of the ongoing tension. Partisanship is simply not that interesting. While someone could label the debates as post hoc defenses of opinions already formed, that is not my impression.
I believe that most 4e resistors are motivated more by perceived loss than actual resistance. Loss of publication and development, loss of being the WotC flagship game, loss of new players, loss of the third party market. Most importantly, loss of being the target demographic. Many people have found that things were "fixed" that they preferred as they were.
If ENWorld really wants to come to peacable terms, it will have to be accepted that the 3e/4e rift is permanent and irrenconciliable. That is not to say that people cannot be friends or that you cannot play and enjoy both, simply that there are two significant fan bases that are not going to merge. It is not simply going to blow over. I remember many people boasting that everyone would change over to 4e, eventually, just as everyone left AD&D behind for 3e.... I believe that is just not going to be the case.
That puts ENWorld in an interesting position. A fanbase that was before fairly united now has two factions that exist for more than arbitrary reasons. Some people will not be switching to 4e. Ever. If the site remains friendly, no problem. Everyone benefits from the shared enthusiasm for gaming. But if it turns into endless sniping, one side will eventually find itself in the weaker position, and will likely move on to other sites. Most likely, that means 3e gaming will head elsewhere.
I think that would be a real poverty for the 4e fans. Other 4e enthusiasts are likely to have similar thoughts about gaming. But players who prefer 3e or other games entirely are fairly likely to bring a different set of preferences to the table, which brings with it different approaches to gaming.
It would be a big hassle for the 3e players, too. I don't know anywhere on the net I'd consider equal to ENworld in terms of traffic and quality of the posts for third edition gaming.
To bring it around... while the OP may have been intended as interested musing on the edition shift, it reads as saying people who don't want to play 4e are irrationally resisting. Furthermore, it implies that people who resist 5e will be irrational, too.
I feel that there is such a thing as good game design. The result is not something you can meausre with a stick, or vote on, or compare sales figures for. But there is an art, and each game makes tradeoffs in order to best accomplish its goals. Some games are more successful than others.
It is not necessary to argue 3e or 4e is better in order to simply argue they are significantly different and that there are reasons to prefer one to the other. That's a topic I consider germane to this website. Baseless conjecture flying under the banner of marketing conventional wisdom is not really helpful to gamers.
Every post that says, "Yes, there is a reason to love your favorite game," helps ENWorld be a better place. Every post that says, "You prefer your favorite edition because you are a drone," makes it a worse place.