Maxperson
Morkus from Orkus
Warlocks, clerics and paladins have built in obligations. If you don't want those obligations to show up, play a different class. You are not required to choose a class that has such obligations built into them.Well, let me give perhaps a slightly different spin here.
Does the Fighter have to worry about whoever paid for them to go to Fighter school coming along and demanding back all the money they paid?
Does the Druid get an avatar of Nature herself showing up one morning demanding service, or else she'll take away all the Druid's magic?
Does the Wizard have to sweat about the possibility that everything they've studied and worked for could just disappear, not just their notes, but literally magic itself just abandoning them, without explanation?
I agree that warlocks should not be singled out for harsh treatment. However, there's zero about most warlock patrons that indicates that the obligation will be harsh treatment. If you do go out of your way to make a pact with a demon or devil, then you've opted into the possibility of getting harsh treatment. I mean, it's a powerful demon or devil.I understand why you want roleplay hooks. I think it's good to have them, and I think players should be open to this. That said, I also think that it's reasonable for the Warlock to ask, "Why should I be subject to worries that I'll get to keep playing my character, that nobody else has to deal with?" It's not like the Warlock is stronger than anyone else. (Arguably, it's weaker in many ways; that's why 5.5e buffed it.) Yes, it's cool to leverage the story of transactional power to create richer, more interesting experiences. That needs to happen in a way that doesn't make Warlock players feel singled out for special harsh treatment.
Fortunately, there are many different patrons, so you don't have to go with fiends.