Just because it seems like they are being confused... there is a difference between "unaware during surprise round" (which only happens when surprise occurs, a tactical or circumstantial thing) and "one the first round of combat but before you act" (which happens every combat)
I have played in fantasy games where surprise round went to con (or Wp or whatever you wanna call them) and frankly it worked very well IMO. It did shift the focus of combat and planning away from "we slug it out" and towards "we plan well" and, yes, it did serve to help balance a bit the non-armor option.
I don't have any problems with surprise round being big whammy opportunity, but i would not by default extend that to carry over into "merely flatfooted" as well.
I have played in fantasy games where surprise round went to con (or Wp or whatever you wanna call them) and frankly it worked very well IMO. It did shift the focus of combat and planning away from "we slug it out" and towards "we plan well" and, yes, it did serve to help balance a bit the non-armor option.
I don't have any problems with surprise round being big whammy opportunity, but i would not by default extend that to carry over into "merely flatfooted" as well.