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Because that would be cheating.
... no. No it would not be.
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You are not doing any of that, so I doubt the term "cheating" is appropriate.
As DM I have an obligation not to play with the PC's with kid gloves.
How is PAing for slightly less suddenly "playing with kid gloves"? You're not in the Cobra Kai. You don't have some sensei with anger management issues drilling "No mercy!" into your head ever time he comes on screen. You're introducing a false dichotomy; there is room between "RAWR POWER ATTACK FOR FULL" and "I poke it with my stick". Just because your monster isn't trying to murder PCs in the most brutal and effective manner possible does not mean you're babying your players.
I didn't acknowledge that at all. When did I acknowledge that?
I must have misread the statement where you said PA was important if melee characters wanted to deal more than 50 damage?
In my game they might go with a Superior Cleave + Secret Technique (Cleave) + Improved Precision build. That's a good deal potentially more powerful than Power Attack. That's potentially room clearing. That's like hitting a corridor with a 20HD lightning bolt and not losing a spell slot.
Except that you don't have that much reach as a melee character (Lightening Bolt goes on for 120 ft; Superior Cleave only allows one 5ft step; a melee character's reach is going to be about 20 ft excluding cheese), and the odds of dropping a room full of mooks with cleaving attacks is low unless they are really weak, in which case you've invested several feats in efficiently dispatching insignificant threats. It's really hard to kill off a room of higher HP enemies because have to basically one shot everyone in your reach in order to make use of your great cleavage.
You know what seems odd to me?? That 'Power Attack' would be 'the only thing that they are good at'.
Dealing damage is one of the few things that melee are good at when it comes to combat (the only thing they can do). The other thing is battlefield control within their personal space, ie lockdown. That's it, two things. Restricting an already narrow set of options seems like a really bad decision.
And geez, exactly how bad have a I nerfed the feat anyway.
Your nerfing something that didn't need to be nerfed in the first place!
That makes me a sad panda. It's like Pathfinder all over again.
tl;dr The reason why I feel like Monica Lewinsky after reading your posts (in that I have a bad taste in my mouth) is because it seems like you're fixing things by taking away options instead of adding them, and players hate having things taken away
especially when the thing being taken away was perfectly balanced.