Boy I'm going with Wormwood on this one. In all the time I've gamed I've only seen this done well or even acceptably a few times and mishandled hundreds of times. Its gotten so bad that when it happens it takes every ounce of tolerance and politeness I have to not pack up and walk out the door right then.
And yet even in the worst of cases, or perhaps especially in the worst cases, the DM is convinced the players are at fault for what happens.
The problem is DM PC's are so rarely motivated by a need for a pregenerated NPC and all too often by an attempt to share a beloved thing with others. That's no dfifferent than showing people slide shows from your vacation or telling funny stories about your children - just don't do it!
And yet even in the worst of cases, or perhaps especially in the worst cases, the DM is convinced the players are at fault for what happens.
The problem is DM PC's are so rarely motivated by a need for a pregenerated NPC and all too often by an attempt to share a beloved thing with others. That's no dfifferent than showing people slide shows from your vacation or telling funny stories about your children - just don't do it!