Write has returned as Amanuensis (Spell Compendium) Sor/Wiz0, but doesn't copy magical writing or maps.
Feign Death lived shortly (heh) in TOME AND BLOOD as a sor/wiz3 spell. Didn't make it into Complete Arcane or Spell Compendium though...
Other 2e hold-outs that T&B got that never again saw light in 3.5: Filter, Choke, Gaze Screen, Ice Burst, Hide Life, and Chain Contingency.
The closest to an offical Affect Normal Fires ability goes to the Fire Genasi (who had the spell as a SLA in 2e). A similar text write-up exists in his stat-block, one COULD just finalize the rest from there.