When someone on your ignore list misrepresents you

Bullgrit

Adventurer
I know it is frowned upon around here to announce that someone is on your ignore list. I have a few people on my ignore list because I find their posts . . . exasperating.

I just recently added someone to my list for this reason, and also because this person seems to always respond to my posts by exaggerating my statements to absurd reaches. I don't know if he does this exaggeration because he wants to make me look wrong (and my original, real statement isn't wrong enough for him), or he just wants to goad me into some forum fight. Either way, it's juvenile.

With this person on my ignore list, I don't see the misrepresentations he makes of my positions. Unfortunately, this can lead to other people misunderstanding my statement/position, especially when the ignored person posts many times in the thread -- many more times than I do.

How would/do you handle such a poster?

For example, say you made the statement:
"I prefer my hot chocolate to be made with milk."

You don't see the ignored person's comment in reply, but you see it quoted, later by someone else:
"Bullgrit thinks dirty water will taint his hot chocolate."

The someone else is defending the idea that water can be dirtier than milk and can therefore taint hot chocolate.

Now you've got a situation where it looks like your real position has been mutated to something you don't believe. Do you respond to the ignored person? Do you take them off ignore so you can rebut their misrepresentation? Is there some moderation recourse to take?

Note: If the idea of using the ignore list is anathema to you, don't bother responding here to tell me. I use the ignore list. I find it helpful, generally. My reading of the ENWorld forums is enhanced by removing posts by people I find annoying.

Bullgrit
 
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The best way to deal with problematic posts is to report them. Then the mods can take a look and act if necessary.
 

It is one of the risks of the ignore list. If you jump in to defend yourself in someone else's post replying to the ignored poster's annoying comment, then the whole reason for ignoring the person is moot. You have been goaded into what you were trying to avoid. I recommend ignoring the reply as if you had not read it.

Personally it is why I gave up using the ignore feature a couple of years ago and instead use my own personal ability to ignore somebody or something when needed.
 

The same thing happens on occasion to me. One person on my ignore list scrutinizes my posts (how I wish they would put me on ignore also) for any anti or critical of DDI stuff and apparently criticizes me at length, which I sometimes see quoted later.

I find it still pretty easy to ignore, if you take them off you list and start arguing, your blood pressure and vacation from Enworld will not be enjoyable.
 

Morrus said:
The best way to deal with problematic posts is to report them. Then the mods can take a look and act if necessary.
Two problems with this. If the post is invisible (because the poster is ignored), then can't really report the post. (Until/unless it is quoted later in the thread, and then you can only report the post in which the ignored poster is quoted.)

And I wouldn't think the moderators would want to be have to add "You are misrepresenting his statement. He actually said. . . " to their already long list of warnings they have to give out.

Plus, unless a moderator is paying attention closely to individual poster's modus operandi, they may not be sure that the misrepresnter is being intentionally misrepresentative vs. just honestly misunderstanding. It's often not until it happens 3 or 4 or 10 times that the aggrieved becomes aware that a particular person(s) is doing it intentionally.

Dice4Hire said:
I wish they would put me on ignore also
Heh. Yeah, I've sometimes thought it would be nice to put myself on someone else's ignore list. :-)

Bullgrit
 



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Albert has added you to his ignore list! Do you wish to ignore Albert?

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Seriously, though, I think mutual ignores would be a great feature. I actually thought "quiet" ignores were already in effect, anyway. Something nice to look forward to however it's implemented.
 

How would/do you handle such a poster?

The phrase, "Don't feed the trolls," comes to mind.

Look, in the end, people will listen to you, or they will not. If they listen to some other person's representation of what you said, instead of you directly, it isn't like jumping into the fray is going to help matters.

In the long run, your own thoughts will win your reputation for you, no matter what others claim you say.
 


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