When will my group ever accept me?

[Acquana]

Yeah, sure mistakes can happen. Ask him. I mean, Lord knows the boyfriend I had in college never let it end after one fight, so your guy may want to ask further.

But I can't say that I'd be surprised if a three-month relationship in the freshman year of college didn't work out. Happens all the time. Again, keep us posted if you're still up for sharing and advice, chickee.

 

[A2Z]

“People who play those games are usually pretty smart.”

You should have sent him to the rules forum to prove how wrong he is.

 

[reveal]

You should have sent him to the rules forum to prove how wrong he is.

 

[Gnome]

<snip>

After those cracks things just got worse, then “nerd” came out along with some other really nasty comments about gamers in general and my group in particular. Something just snapped inside me and I went off on him. In the end I wound up slapping him in the face and kicking him out.

Sorry, I guess I’m still a little angry about it. God, I can’t believe that I wasted three months with that jerk! Well I’m happy that he’s gone.

The good news to follow once I get home from work.

So sorry that telling him went so badly, but it definately sounds like "good riddance" to me.

I'm looking forward to hearing to good news, though. I assume that it has something to do with mending fences with the members of your gaming group?

 

[PowerWordDumb]

I'm looking forward to hearing to good news, though. I assume that it has something to do with getting along with the women in your gaming group?

Some stories can't be properly told on ENWorld.

 

[smootrk]

After those cracks things just got worse, then “nerd” came out along with some other really nasty comments about gamers in general and my group in particular. Something just snapped inside me and I went off on him. In the end I wound up slapping him in the face and kicking him out.

Sooo, back to what you were talking about before...

Guys can be so childish sometimes! Although I sure you'd have like sitting in on a few of our Vampire LARPs

Just kidding. I am married, but trust me. Find a significant other with similar interests. Not only will you be happier, but you will surely make one of us "nerds" very happy as well.

 

[Belen]

Sorry, I guess I’m still a little angry about it. God, I can’t believe that I wasted three months with that jerk! Well I’m happy that he’s gone.

It happens. A least you did not spend 6 months with a bible thumper who was trying to "save" you, thus getting disconnected from all your friends who could not stand to be around her. It sounds like he never made a point to get to know you in the first place, which is always a bad sign. I am sure you'll end up with someone better.

As for your dilemma, the story about your boyfriend's reaction would make a good story for the gaming group. I'll bet that they will all be able to identify with you and you now have a point of reference with what they must have gone through as well.

 

[smootrk]

As for your dilemma, the story about your boyfriend's reaction would make a good story for the gaming group. I'll bet that they will all be able to identify with you and you now have a point of reference with what they must have gone through as well.

I agree. Based on what you say your group thinks of your hiding your gaming habits, this is perfect to prove otherwise to them. Good luck.

 

[Queen_Dopplepopolis]

Raven - just thought I'd point you in the direction of Randomling's House... it's another forum, but there is a Girl Talk subforum for just us ladies to chat about whatever it is that's on our minds. Hours of entertainment.

www.randomlinghouse.net

 

[reveal]

Raven - just thought I'd point you in the direction of Randomling's House... it's another forum, but there is a Girl Talk subforum for just us ladies to chat about whatever it is that's on our minds. Hours of entertainment.

www.randomlinghouse.net

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