The main reason I wanted to post was just to express my condolences about the situation. It sounds like a really good game -- one that I would enjoy playing in. And to have him causing so much havoc because he's unhappy... ouch. Doubly bad because of your friendship being jeopardized.
Yeah, if he's comparing a Shadowrun caster to a low-level D&D bard... You're never going to get through to him. Sorry.
Just a quick comment -- you might also want to look at the "Bardic Knack" replacement ability. PHB II, I think... It allows a bard to at least be competent at most anything he cares to try. Combined with the "Jack of all Trades" feat (so you can try trained-only skills untrained), it really does make a bard have some crazy versatility in skills.
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Final thought: Whatever you do, don't allow gestalt characters as a novice DM. They're tough enough to run a game with when you're experienced!
Elf Witch said:He keeps comparing how powerful his shaman is in Shadowrun to his bard and of course the bard comes up lacking. His shaman was powerful from day 1. I play Shadowrun as well and it is a very different system it is much easier to get successes with having a palm full of dice as well as karma to spend to reroll failures.
Yeah, if he's comparing a Shadowrun caster to a low-level D&D bard... You're never going to get through to him. Sorry.
I like the idea of letting him use bardic knowledge for some of the skills.
Just a quick comment -- you might also want to look at the "Bardic Knack" replacement ability. PHB II, I think... It allows a bard to at least be competent at most anything he cares to try. Combined with the "Jack of all Trades" feat (so you can try trained-only skills untrained), it really does make a bard have some crazy versatility in skills.
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Final thought: Whatever you do, don't allow gestalt characters as a novice DM. They're tough enough to run a game with when you're experienced!