If you aren't getting mean... is the word "hate" appropriate?
I mean, I know we are in a world in which we have to accept literally everyone's usage of words, even when that usage is literally the opposite of the nominal meaning of the word. But still, I'll be a stick in the mud, and suggest that just maybe we should push back on it. "Dislike such that I will not play it," is not the same as "dislike such that I denigrate people who do play it", and maybe we shouldn't use the same word for both.
And, I think it reasonable to say that the former is fine, and the latter is toxic behavior we should not, collectively, be tolerating.
But, if you wanna use the same word for behavior that's okay, and behavior that isn't... well, have fun keeping your discussion cogent.