Mhmm... Coming into this really late, but I figured I'd take a stab at it.
Min-maxing isn't a bad thing, as such - however, it has far greater potential to be a bad thing than a more casual style of play. Most things can become disruptive when taken to extremes, and min-maxing, by definition, has some tendecies towards extremism.
In addition, while you can always change and fine-tune the way you role-play your character to make it fit a particular game, a Str 20 Int 6 killing machine (to use an exaggerated example) is not exactly a flexible character design.
Finally, I think incompetent min-maxers that make awful characters are a lot more common (in my exeprience, at least) than incompetent role-players who disrupt the game for everyone else to the same extent.
All that being said, this is to a large degree me playing devil's advocate, since I've always been strongly in favor of optimizing characters, provided that isn't taken to mean making them social cripples or psychopaths.
Min-maxing isn't a bad thing, as such - however, it has far greater potential to be a bad thing than a more casual style of play. Most things can become disruptive when taken to extremes, and min-maxing, by definition, has some tendecies towards extremism.
In addition, while you can always change and fine-tune the way you role-play your character to make it fit a particular game, a Str 20 Int 6 killing machine (to use an exaggerated example) is not exactly a flexible character design.
Finally, I think incompetent min-maxers that make awful characters are a lot more common (in my exeprience, at least) than incompetent role-players who disrupt the game for everyone else to the same extent.
All that being said, this is to a large degree me playing devil's advocate, since I've always been strongly in favor of optimizing characters, provided that isn't taken to mean making them social cripples or psychopaths.