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I don't believe in the no-win scenario
Sorry, I did realize my example for examples sake probably wasn't jargony enough. I do think folks should use their jargon mindfully. Saying, "oh it's so meta" doesnt really tell us how you are using the term. Saying, "oh thats so meta because you used fire on a troll you never encountered before" tells me a lot more about how you define the term and want to use it. Going forward I can challenge that definition to make sure the person really means it. If they do, then I have to decide if I am going to suspend my definition for conversation sake, or politely exit the exchange.That’s not jargon though, that’s just vocabulary. For a better example of what I’m talking about, consider the term “meta.” In these parts, “meta” might be short for “metagaming,” which most of us would probably take to mean something along the lines of “using player knowledge to gain an advantage.” Of course, this is similar to, but subtly different from the way the 5e DMG defines “metagame thinking,” which is “thinking about the game as a game,” with an example provided of a player assuming a monster is a balanced challenge for the party because the DM wouldn’t have thrown something at them they had no chance of handling. Having two people discussing metagaming, using these two different definitions but each assuming the other us using the same definition they are could already lead to confusion. Add to this conversation a Magic: the Gathering player, to whom “the metagame” refers to the overall competitive gameplay environment; which decks and strategies are most prevalent and what cards and strategies counter them effectively. This person is especially likely to become confused by the conversation if they assume the others are using “meta” the same way they do. Then let’s add in another Magic: the Gathering player, who has heard other players talk about “the meta” when discussing competitive decks, and assumes that the term refers specifically to the dominant deck, rather than the competitive environment as a whole; maybe they’ve even gotten this idea from the erroneous backronym, “Most Effective Tactic Available.” This person would likely run into communication barriers with the other Magic player, let alone the D&D players.
You can only clear it up through discussion if you recognize that you are using the same jargon differently, which is less likely when everyone assumes everyone else is using it the same way they are. And, if it does become clear that there’s a miscommunication due to different understandings of the jargon, in my experience this tends to lead to arguments over what definition to use - the very same pedantic halts on productive discussion you mentioned in your previous post.
Ok, cool. Thank you for clarifying
What is common is that two folks disagree and can not suspend or reach the disengage mode. This is usually after about 8 pages and the conversation has run its course. It's also common for these folks to reignite that song and dance repeatedly. Likely, why so many folks are down on jargon entirely. I also recognize this happening and use the disengage method to side step this repetitious and exhausting process.