Woohoo, I think! (was: Advice Please?)

[Andrew D. Gable]

every young chickee needs a sugar daddy.

Actually, from something I found out, she might be my sugar mamma, lol.

I never put two and two together, but I think her family owns a chain of funeral homes in this area. So there could be some money there.

Anyway, in answer to Crothian, we're probably gonna do the dinner/movie thing.

Hopefully it works out better than the one and only gamer chick around here (that I know of, anyhow), who I dated and... no sir, don't like it, to quote the Ren & Stimpy horse.

 

[Steve Jung]

/snip/
I never put two and two together, but I think her family owns a chain of funeral homes in this area. So there could be some money there.
/snip

Either that or you'll be the next guest star on Six Feet Under. Good luck.

 

[Andrew D. Gable]

Yet another update.

Went out with her Friday night, had an exceptionally good time, quite possibly the best date I've ever had (and no, not in the carnal sense, you dirty-minded blokes). Took her for dinner, had some great conversation, then went to see Dodgeball, since I figured a comedy would be a good first date type movie. Will most likely be going out again.

In regards to my sugar mamma post, I kinda think so - she said something about not even qualifying for financial aid for college, 'cause her family makes too much money.

Offered to pay for her own dinner, though, which rather took me aback.

One and only sole complaint would be she's just a little garrulous - rather quiet at work, just a bit more talkative outside of work.

 

[Turanil]

Short version: Go for it.

No, certainly not, NO, NOOOO!! DON'T GO FOR IT! (later, much later, you will thank me for the advice...)

 

[Pielorinho]

One and only sole complaint would be she's just a little garrulous - rather quiet at work, just a bit more talkative outside of work.

Sounds great! Keep in mind that some people talk a lot when they're nervous, and first dates can definitely be nervewracking . When I was nineteen, I dated a woman in her late twenties, and it was not a problem. (It was a weird relationship in other ways, but not because of the age difference).

Hope it keeps going well for you!
Daniel

 

[Kaleon Moonshae]

On the contrary, mister Flaming Canary, most 19 years olds I know are quite future-oriented and willing to commit, while most 30 year old I know are wild and untamed, living for the moment. But then again, I live in Central New Jersey, the Armpit of the US, where nothing is as it should be.

But Hey, I think this girl would realise that he's serious when she gave him her number. Otherwise, Mister Gable here could be in for a simple streak of fun.

I agree here, I started dating my ex when I was 18 and she was 26 and I was the only one thinking of the future, which is why we finally split up this year after 8 years. She just isn't mature enough to settle down and grow up, while I was wanting to at least try settling down and was looking for a real future, not just a *day by day* relationship. I thought she would change, she thought I would, but those 8 years were fun. I say go for it.

 

[Andrew D. Gable]

Next bit of an update.

I snagged myself Date #2, which some of my friends said is important. If she goes out with you a second time, they say... they also say #3 is *very* important, too, though for other reasons.

 

[Andrew D. Gable]

Updating again.

Date #2 came and went and all was cool. She was on vacation last week so I didn't see her at all but she called me like ASAP when she got home, and I didn't even tell her to. That *has* to be good.

And now we have Date #3 on the way, and as of yet all is going well. Between this, and something else on my horizon that shall just have to remain nameless for the time being (suffice to say I'm *very* happy about it), things are looking up for me. Finally. It's about danged time.

 

[Krug]

Go for it dude! Hoagar commands it!

 

[Andrew D. Gable]

Go for it dude! Hoagar commands it!

Nevermind the fact your equivalent of 19-year-old girls in Bor are really 152.