Elder-Basilisk
First Post
Cedric said:So what happens when someone within the ranks of the gaming community wants to publish a product that blurs the lines of what had historically been considered proper in the gaming world?
Gamers the world over unite to turn into the very people that the community as a whole has fought for almost thirty years. Perhaps before you condemn a new product, you should stop to look in the mirror. Do you see yourself looking back? Or do you see the very people this industry has silenced by marching forward into the 21st century and claiming legitimacy in a world that would reject them?
This post either presupposes that people should not consider this particular work improper or that no work should ever be considered improper. The first presupposition begs the question of why it should be considered proper or improper--as such it's an assertion not an argument. The second is unlikely to be the case--and if it is, it is unlikely to find many adherents. We all accept that certain things [mention of which is forbidden by the moderators as it is thought to cause discussion to degenerate] are improper subjects for gaming.
The question of what is proper cannot be resolved by saying that "what has historically been considered proper" is irrelevant. Saying that demolishes all possible standards which is something I don't think any of us would want. I'm sure there is a market (maybe not a big one but in the modern world, you don't need a big market to make a profit) for all sorts of OGL settings and games that most people here would agree should not be published. [Insert references to topics banned by the moderators here]. If one has already demolished ideas of propriety to make way for the sex book, how can you resurrect them to defend against any other book?
Now it's an entirely different thing to say "What's wrong with a sex book for gaming" or even "what's wrong with another immature sex book?" Those questions admit the possibility that some limits might be in order--they simply question where those limits are. (And, while we're on this subject, it should be noted that, despite the common observation that sex is a "taboo" subject in North American society, it often seems like there is no other subject that is discussed anywhere and that sex is the one appetite to which at least the dominant shapers of the culture will admit no limits).
To say, OTOH, that anything that blurs the lines of what is proper is acceptable does not admit the possibility that any limits might be in order. Thus, while it justifies this particular sex book, it also justifies any other possible book, no matter how vile. In order to say that it's proper to blur the lines WRT to the depiction of consensual sex but not WRT the meaning of consent, the age of consent, unambiguously nonconsensual sex, or the morality of genocide (some maintain that D&D already does this but there's certainly room for more explicitness in this area) requires respect for the idea of propriety and the concept of limits. Destroying that respect (any more than it has already been destroyed) is not a good idea.
On a slightly different topic, a number of people have said that they wouldn't be comfortable role-playing sex in a typically male gaming group. I don't think I would be comfortable role-playing with a female DM either (or with women in the gaming group) either. Aside from all the interpersonal issues that would have the potential for creating, it seems like there would be an issue with the kind of environment it would create. I can only imagine what many women would think if, upon joining a group, the discovered that they were expected to roleplay out sex scenes with the DM or with other players or even were watching such scenes role-played. If that happened in a workplace, it would be considered a hostile environment and would (I think justifiably) invite a sexual harrassment suit. Now a game isn't a workplace, but I don't think it would make the experience any more pleasant.