In point buy or standard array, you both proved how meaningless ASI are.
It just does not matter at all. The best you get is a 5% higher chance to succeed for a few levels... I also do prefer advantage on dexterity or strength ability checks or +1 hp per level. Those things are significant bonuses and stay forever.
There is a reason 5e strictly discriminates between attacks, savings throws and ability checks. Having races lean more into the exploration or social pillar makes the game better.
A wood elf is still naturally stealthy and fast, no need for a dex bonus.