D&D 5E Your one best piece of GM/DM advice?

[Greenstone.Walker]

Be a champion of the players; not an adversary.

 

[guachi]

I've already given my best piece of advice, but here's my second. At least, it's second for me considering how I DM.

Plan for the next session at the end of the current session. Oftentimes someone has to be home at a certain time, the gaming store is closing, everyone is mentally drained/too excited by killing the BBEG to do this.

But take the time to plan the next session. Where will you play? Who can make it? What time? And then do in-game planning. Will the players travel somewhere? Are they going further into the dungeon? Are they up for following up some side quest? A few minutes at the end of the current session go a long to make the next session better.

 

[mellored]

Don't worry if they kill your monster. You have more.

 

[Sunseeker]

Anytime you want to say "No" try to say "No, but..." or "Yes, if..." instead. Reward creativity, even if it stifles your plans.

But likewise, don't be afriad to say "NO" when you need to. There are plenty of good reasons to say no, not just to in-game activity but player behaviour, attitudes and actions. Not everything that happens at the table is okay. Nor should it be. A DM must have a firm and steady hand and be willing to use it.

And that plays into my advice: Be firm. Make a decision and stick to it. Maybe it's the right decision, maybe it's the wrong decision. Waffling over it will not benefit you, your players, or your game. Be consistent.

 

[Caliban]

DM's get to have fun too.

 

[jasper]

Do not play with goobers. Who and what are goobers depend on the individual.

 

[innerdude]

Do not play with goobers. Who and what are goobers depend on the individual.

Crap. My wife tells me I'm a goober all the time. So basically, I'm breaking this rule in every gaming group I ever play in. . . .

 

[Goober4473]

Do not play with goobers. Who and what are goobers depend on the individual.

Hey!

 

[innerdude]

Hey!

Well, if you were Goober4472 or Goober4474, it might be allowable.

Sadly, Goober4473 is RIGHT OUT.

 

[kalil]

Marry one of your players. Make new little gamers. We all need to man/woman up to keep the hobby alive!