Naked HIVE; Birthday suits ftw!

[Mustrum_Ridcully]

I missed my Hive last night, I wanted to share the fear and trepidation of asking this lass out, dang my stomach was doing flips while I was waiting for a reply, luckily she answered in about an hour saying she hoped she wasn't sounding too eager by replying so quick

Isn't this feeling all part of the fun?

Well, it is certainly in hindsight.

Mustrum "It has been some time..." Ridcully

 

[Aeson]

Isn't this feeling all part of the fun?

Well, it is certainly in hindsight.

Mustrum "It has been some time..." Ridcully

I don't think so.

 

[Blackrat]

Isn't this feeling all part of the fun?

Well, it is certainly in hindsight.

Mustrum "It has been some time..." Ridcully

Hmm... I gotta admit, there is appeal in the anticipation. It's the thrill of the hunt...

It is the one that thing that I sometimes miss about being single.

 

[Aeson]

Hmm... I gotta admit, there is appeal in the anticipation. It's the thrill of the hunt...

It is the one that thing that I sometimes miss about being single.

I'm tired of the hunt. I'm ready to give up again.

 

[Mustrum_Ridcully]

I'm tired of the hunt. I'm ready to give up again.

The last time, I didn't "hunt". I was just out and met a nice girl and it somehow connected. Still, there was this feeling of anticipation ("was it really mutual? I wonder if something comes of it?")... I am not sure if this expression is also used in English: "Butterflies in your belly?" (Schmetterlinge im Bauch).

I am not sure if going out more would be sufficient these days, though. I am just not particularly interested in going out or "hunting"...

 

[Aeson]

The last time, I didn't "hunt". I was just out and met a nice girl and it somehow connected. Still, there was this feeling of anticipation ("was it really mutual? I wonder if something comes of it?")... I am not sure if this expression is also used in English: "Butterflies in your belly?" (Schmetterlinge im Bauch).

I am not sure if going out more would be sufficient these days, though. I am just not particularly interested in going out or "hunting"...

I'm not a going out type. Makes it hard to meet many people.

 

[Aeson]

I just had a friend on another message board offer to help hook me up. lol
I haven't had anyone set me up since I was a teen when my sister wanted to get her boyfriend's ex to leave him alone.

 

[Mustrum_Ridcully]

I'm not a going out type. Makes it hard to meet many people.

The same for me. But I don't complain.
But I suppose in that case, internet dating and similar options are the way to go.

It seems one of the issues that make themselves worse.
You're a single. Either you focus on changing that, and will feel every failure, every day you are a single - and not in a relationship - stronger.
Or you don't care about it, and don't notice that something is missing - because you do not miss it. Well, I suppose the good thing is that the first type might have more success then the second type.

 

[hafrogman]

I think the problem is that one doesn't really get a choice about which type they are. There are people that are perfectly happy and content on their own, which is great for them. Then there are people that simply function better when they're with someone. . . it doesn't have to be a lack of self confidence or even a bad thing, it's just how they are.

I think either extreme can be a problem, either you see being single as totally intolerable, leading to bad relationship choices. . . or you see being in a relationship as a restriction of your freedom, which could lead to bad relationship choices.

So the trick is to know which you are, and temper your instincts with logic. But I don't think you get to choose which side you naturally lean to.

 

[Phaezen]

Evening Hive! Let me say hello while I can

Meeting new people is always nice, I just sometimes wish I would meet nice girls who aren;t already in relationships which seems to be the standard for me