anest1s
First Post
You can decide to "Delay" your initiative whenever you want. You just can't raise your initiative to something higher than you rolled. The Delay option is a metagame option, i.e. it happens out of the context of the game and in the context of the people rolling the dice. You are considered to have ROLLED the lower initiative. Like rerolling your saving throw by virtue of a Luck feat.
In the Delay option, you "voluntarily reduce your own Initiative result" and accept a lower number as your actual number. It's black and white. Your "result" of initiative has been changed...ergo your PC has not had a chance to act within the game itself.
But hey, house rule it anyway you'd like.
Bob who plays Rob the Rogue disagrees with your point of view though.
DM:Everyone roll initiative...the surprise round the orcs got is over...
Bob: Yey I rolled a 20...+8...I play first.
DM:Ok, what you want to do?
Bob: Well...I can't flank anyone...I think I will delay
DM: Ok you wizard go next
Wizard: hmm I throw my mighty magic missiles on their leader
DM: Ok you hit the leader hard in the face...Bob wanna play now?
Bob: No, not yet.
DM: Ok Ranger you next
Ranger: Ok I move back drawing my bow, and then I hit with one arrow on leaders face.
DM: Whatever....you miss the face, but you hit him on his throat...Bob wanna play now?
Bob: No dude....I can't flank with myself...''Rob looks nervously around waiting for John the Fighter to back him up like he always does''
DM:Ok...now its the orcs turn...every one charges at you Bob...whats your flat footed AC?
Bob: But I had the chance to act 3 times already!
DM: That was a metagame decision changing the result of your initiative...maybe you had the chance to act like 3 times already, but Rob is just THAT SLOW. Sorry pal.
Bob: But then how do I make Rob wait for his flanking buddy to get into position?
DM: You have to get cursed and ready a partial charge....yeah that would work alright.
Bob: But I said that Rob in game waits to act...he had the chance to act too!
DM: Bob....I would ask ''Rob you wanna play?'' not ''Bob you wanna play?'' if it was in game. Now what was your flat-footed AC again?
Bob thinks that it makes no sense.
Rob admires John the fighter because he is always faster than him. ALWAYS. and he ALWAYS helps him in every single combat.
Rob thought he was the fastest rogue in Waterdeep, but it is clear that the 8 DEX Fighter will always top him.