Ya, that's the most difficult part of this: the zero sum game.I agree. My argument is mostly because it really bugs me when people say an optional playstyle should be excluded from the game because they personally dislike it.
I think it's about the stakes. I don't mean to belittle anyone, but my perception is that those who dislike damage on a miss have more at stake, and those who like damage on a miss have less at stake. Whether that's actually true or not doesn't matter as much as the perception fueling the fire.
For example, take the argument about the "hit" and "miss" being meaningless or mostly meaningless. Firstly, it's not objectively meaningless when some people do see meaning. And I don't think the argument is as clean-cut as they want to make out to be. Anyway, to those that hit and miss are meaningless terms, damage-on-a-miss fits just fine into their core game -- it costs them nothing to embrace it. To those hit and miss are meaningful terms, damage-on-a-miss does not fit just fine into the core rules; conversely, it messes up their paradigm and may compromise their playstyle. The other side doesn't have that problem. So different stakes in that zero sum game.
By asking someone to accept an optional playstyle in their game and thinking them selfish to spurn you is not irrational. But you're asking them perhaps more than you realize, if the very existence of that rule in the core game is compromising their playstyle including but not limited to attribution of meaning to hit and miss.
I think some people know that, and so their argument is reduced to attributing hit-on-a-miss as incoherent nonsense, which of course, continues to invalidate and incense the other side. And so it goes...
(This is my assessment; I do not presume to be neutral)
I think histrionics on a forum are somewhat normalized, because someone can make some very good points, then feels those arguments are being disregarded or invalidated, and gets and more defensive and angry. That's not really anyone else's business other than the mods. Secondly, Burninator makes some very strong arguments -- yes, lots overstating too, but really both sides are guilty of that.It actually disappointed me that so few others have stood up to Burninator's over the top histrionics, just because they agree with his position.
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