ok, then slight change... lets go with your statement, there have always been roles... then I don't see the disconnect.
And that's the problem. Fans of the "4E way" seem completely incapable of seeing the disconnect. And being incapable of seeing it, they are the incapable of accepting that anyone else sees it.
I'm not all 4e players, so please don't group me
I just said I don't see the disconnect, I do see that you skiped all the things about roles we agreed on (like party face) and went on with this. I also see that you don't at all accept what I see, well I am trying to work with you...
In short "roles" in the modern 4e enhanced vernacular are not the same thing as the generic concept of roles which have always existed.
ok... then lets go back to the roles in question... I did striker last time lets do leader this time.
leaders basically buff and heal, they are a defensive combat role, and are based on the classic cleric. WHat role did cleric play in your generic concept pre 4e?
Do you want to understand the other side? Or do you just want to argue wording now?
at this point I don't know what I want, I was responding to you here though...
And yet no one every called the people who stuck with 2E "Haters". A key difference.
I also never called someone who "just stuck with 3e" a hater either.. I did however when people came online to a 4e forurm, or in my face at a 4e game at a con to tell me or others that 4e sucked or that 4e wasn't D&D or that wotc is just one big money grab HATERS... see staying with 3e is hateing nothing. Going out of your way to argue about 4e IS hateing...
A lot of people REALLY don't like 4E. Saying so is not "hurtful or antagonizing".
100% agree. Saying I do not like 4e is not hurtful or antagonizing.
let me go one further saying "I don't like 4e because of combat roles, and I don't use them in my game" is also not... as long as you are talking about your game and your preference it is fine... it is when you present your game as fact that can over ride someone elses game that it is.
we have 2 sides, one says "I see X in my games," side 2 says "I have never seen it so it doesn't exsist" side one come back with "Just because you didn't see it doesn't mean it isn't there, or else I would not have seen it." this can be handled with respect and point for counter point... or one side can declair victory by saying they factualy disproved the other, and/or by being insulting (saying someone only wants something they have said they do not).
I was there from the beginning.
me too, how ever I was very much the WotC target audience back then, because I had heavly house ruled everything 3.5, and was using more newer classes and less phb classes. When they wanted to sell a new edition I was ready for one...
my confirmation bias perspective, there was a TON of "hurtful and antagonizing" things said against anyone who was critical of 4E in any way.
yup I remember that...
I'll even say that this statement is true without my perspective, it is just my perspective that makes those comments seems to so overwhelmingly drown out everything else.
I will disagree slitly... what drowned out everything else was BOTH side (especially once pathfinder came along) slining insults and complaints.
So, yeah people get pissed off and start poking at each other.
yup just like this thread...
But you know what? Your side is the side that NEEDS to be extra nice if you want to persuade anyone. (too late now of course)
I don't want to persuade anyone I just want to talk about the subject... you are free to end in the same place you begain or not... as long as you are polite and not dismissive or insulting.
At the end of the day 4E sucks rather badly at delivering the kind of game experience I want.
ok...same with me and pathfinder.
I can say all kinds of things about it. I HAVE said all kinds of things about it.
yup me and pathfinder and core 3.5 too
And I've acknowledged over and over again for years that I completely accept that 4E is the best game EVER for a section of the community.
yup same here just with pathfinder
I have no slight issue with this. When you say "this is an awesome thing", I don't say that is a slanderous lie.
same page here
I simply say "I'm glad it fits your taste. It does not fit mine."
same here
It is very hard to find any 4E fan (then or holdouts now) who are willing to accept this mutual allowance for taste.
wow... just wow...
that is back to grouping and dismissive and border line insulting... it basicly comes down to "If your with THEM, then you don't count." there are plenty of 4e fans that are much MORE accepting then either you or I...
If you dislike something in 4E then you are a hater and you are expressing hurtful and antagonizing things.
nope... if you present your views in hurtful or antagonizing ways you are a hater...
The ways roles work in 4E brings major changes to the table and I really dislike it.
ok, feel free to ignore them in any game you play...I'm fine with that.
I reject 4E for many reasons and this is on the list. There were characters with roles in my 3E and PF games. There are characters with roles in my 5E game happening tonight. These "roles" do not have the gamist feel of 4E by any remote stretch.
great, maybe if you shared your thoughts on better ways to incorporate roles, or your thoughts on how to use them (since you did just say you use them just differently) we could turn this into a more positive thread.
Again this is talking past each other. 4E is the only edition to have roles in the strict gamist manner of that context. My game tonight will have roles. My game to night will most absolutely not have "4e roles".
what makes a 3e role and a 2e role different from a 4e one?
I disagree. Being clear why one group of people avoided a system because of something is every bit as productive as being clear why another group of people flocked to it. Expressing dislike is still productive. Telling people they should not tell you their opinion is not productive.
I agree expressing a dislike (in the form of an opionon) is fine, it is being disrespectful or dismissive of others that is not.