iserith
Magic Wordsmith
Lol I know we disagree on things but seriously what the heck?
I mean why are you playing a game where the stats are designed to do exactly that if you're just going to say "naw none of this matters". No I'm being totally serious here.
This completely diminishes even bothering to bring a character to the table. You're essentially saying that if a player is good enough, they could never have to actually play D&D at your table.
The ability scores come into play when I judge the approach to have an uncertain outcome and a meaningful chance of failure. The mechanics then come into play and we get to see how the low Charisma score impacts the character's chance of success. Player skill matters in my view. When the player falls short of automatic success (or failure), the character's relevant mechanics will help determine the result.
You seem to suggest that describing what you want to do isn't "actually" part of playing the game of D&D. That can't be right, so please clarify your meaning if you would be so kind.