Mercurius
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Aaaaaand at this point, you and I are done for the foreseeable future. I find it hard to believe you’re discussing things in good faith.
Louis CK was accused of- and admitted- that he exposed himself to and masturbated in front of at least 5 different women, only one of whom (Sarah Silverman) expressed any notion that it was in any way consensual. And even she stated that he abused his power and celebrity. This isn’t obscure stuff, this was widely reported in industry outlets like Variety, news outlets like The Guardian & CNN, tabloid press like TMZ, and even soft news like People.
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Louis C.K. Admits Sexual Misconduct Allegations 'Are True'
"The power I had over these women is that they admired me. And I wielded that power irresponsibly. I have been remorseful of my actions. And I've tried to learn from them. And run from them," a portion of Louis C.K.'s statement readspeople.com
That isn’t ethical/moral shades of gray stuff, that behavior is black letter law illegal. In all likelihood, only the statute of limitations has kept him out of jail.
We'll have to just agree to disagree on shades of gray--both because I just don't see the world in a black and white manner and feel that every situation is different, that there are degrees of misconduct, abuse of power, etc; but also because I think it will take us into territory that neither of us really wants to go, and probably doesn't serve the discourse.
For me the more important point is that we allow for a divergence in opinion, that it isn't always veering towards "either you're with us, or against us." "Either you think the way we think, or you are bad/wrong/evil/ignorant/some form of ist that don't like."
I'd rather us start from a place in which different ways of seeing the world are not only tolerated but explored and honored as valid, even if they differ from our own. Or in the context of the original post, that there are different ways to approach the question of "cultural appropriation" that don't have to be framed within the usual language and ideas of the ideology from which such terminology arises.
The problem I have with this general ideology, which I'm very familiar with as it is prevalent in the left-liberal circles that I mostly inhabit (being mostlly a left-liberal myself), is that it is becoming a new kind of secular religion that is ultimately authoritarian in that it requires everyone to agree on an ethical code, on specific tenets, and if you diverge at all than you're "one of them" (the bad guys, aka those who won't get with the program). It is ultimately, as I see it, a closed system that sees anything that differs from it as a threat.
If we shut down conversation and all views that differ from our own as inherently bad or wrong, then we narrow the range of thinking and we limit our own potentiality as human beings. If our ideological immune system is activated, we refuse to entertain different ideologies and ways of seeing, we end up calcifying our own view and seeing everything else as a threat, and thereby miss opportunities for our own growth and to meet others beyond the limitations of our respective ideologies.
Ultimately we're all just human beings, wearing the clothes of ideologies and identities, none of which are truly "us." The more we buy into those ideologies and identities, the more we separate ourselves into tribes that are opposed to each other, which is not the direction we need to go. IMO.