Yeah, I seem to do okay, managed to hold an empire together and figured I may as well try ironman to see what achievements I can get. I didn't change much in the way of settings so it is probably still only normal.
Talking with my friend has brought to light some new menus that I never really looked at, an important one is succession which let me know that I needed to form the kingdom of Lappland and then get my preferred son voted in, otherwise it would split off from my realm and be granted to another son which I didn't want. Cool thing is, people were voting another one of my sons in as king of Lappland and when I checked him out, he was way better than my currently selected heir so I switched to him as king of Norway as well.
This is my current realm of norway, got most of it in a single lifetime, my successor has added in the the land in the top right through a war of subjugation and has begun to add Novgorod, though I'm thinking of taking Denmark next. Sweden is my ally so I haven't moved against them yet. Hoping to have a Scandinavian empire.
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