Gradine
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These are cool as preferences, but they're definitely not unwritten laws to be unbroken across the genre. It could be argued that most editions of D&D don't follow these precepts (at least not perfectly).It's not that I don't understand any part of it, I just don't see it as being consistent with the concept of the controller of any character always rolls for that character, which seems so blindingly obvious as a precept it's unexpected that I have to type it out.
Combine that with the idea of no mechanical in-play difference between a PC and an NPC, (a.k.a. what's good for the goose is good for the gander) and yes, this is the type of rule I'll fight against.