abirdcall
(she/her)
It has to be. At a point, in the extreme, you end up with no usable words. Remember, I'm not commenting on the words brought up in this thread. I could care less. But the idea that each and every time a person, who we don't know, is potentially offended by a word, we eliminate that word, the outcome is obvious - in the extreme.
So the question really is, where is the line? Earlier in this thread we had a person that is a part of a group cited in one of these changes. They said they didn't agree with the change. So we've already crossed from unanimous among the groups in question.
We can look at this a different way. If I am offended by the word "cheese" because I was born in Wisconsin, should we rename cheese to "Cow Custard" for me? What if 100 people are? Or 1,000? 10,000?
You are dealing with something subjective, in regards to people you don't know. It seems like you are chasing ghosts you can't possibly catch. And if you did catch all the ghosts, is your language still worth using afterwards?
I don't know if I can keep this apolitical if any further specifics are required. So hopefully this makes the point of my post clear.
Words aren't just sounds. People aren't offended about a sound. They are offended by sounds that are threats. I think words carry meaning that is lost on you because those meanings just aren't important to you.
You have told us here that you 'could care less' and are taking this opportunity to have an intellectual exercise, but for others the way words are used is important for their safety.
It isn't a matter of number of people. If a threat is made against 1 person then that is enough that those words shouldn't be used.
It is trivially easy to identify bad faith actors. And if you can't, just pick a different word until you find out. It's also trivially easy to just be courteous.
What you are doing right now is communicating to us that you are not a safe person.