Whizbang Dustyboots
Gnometown Hero
It was a similar story with my dad. He brought home photocopies of all the OD&D booklets but Blackmoor (which I've still never read, to this day) and happily bought us BD&D and AD&D books. We played for decades and, I'm ashamed to say, it wasn't until only a few years ago that I finally realized that he probably wanted to play all along, even if he didn't necessarily have time.My dad never played D&D when we were kids. He bought us the Mentzer boxed set, ran it for us once and then let use loose. But he was a lifelong CRPG gamer.
After he retired he joined a tabletop group and discovered the joy of "real" D&D for the first time. If he had not been on the opposite coast I would have loved to finally run D&D for him. (this was before I embraced VTT play).
He passed away from lung cancer a few years ago. He left me all of his D&D stuff (much of it 4E material) and his dice.
I'm not sure why I am sharing that story. It's not really relevant, and it doesn't have a point or a happy ending. But here we are.
He's been playing for years now, when we're together during vacations or over Zoom. He's psyching himself up to DM in his senior citizen-rich town, which makes me incredibly proud. (In addition to the Starter Box, core books and Saltmarsh, he's also got The Monsters Know What They're Doing and Return of the Lazy DM, so he's off to a good start.)